Of Pertinent Questions

by thebirdieflies

Dear Future Me

When you are considering dating someone, try making a list of all the things you like about him.
If it’s going to be a one-week fling, just about Anything on that list will work.
But if you are serious about making it last a while, see if the guy is a good conversationalist. Does he interest you? Do you want to keep talking to him, not because he’s flirting with you, but because what he talks about interests you? Does he Know stuff? Stuff that you like, or are interested in. Can he carry out an entire conversation discussing world politics/history, religion, science, psychology of people etc? Also, very importantly, does he make you laugh? Does he not mind that you act foolish at times and commit social faux pas? Does he keep commenting on how you speak, dress, walk and do you feel like he’s trying to change you? Is he nice to you? And does he seem genuine and honest?

These are pertinent questions.

If you don’t want boredom to set in, you need something more substantial than a good-looking hunk of a man.

Lots of love,
Past Me


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